Do I tip my videographer and photographer?

Alright, let's tackle this tipping dilemma head-on! I totally get it – your wedding expenses can feel like a heavy weight lifted off your shoulders once they're all settled, but then the question of tipping sneaks in and adds a new layer of stress.

So, here's my take, based on my own experience shooting photos and videos for weddings. Tipping culture has definitely gone a bit wild, hasn't it? It seems like you're expected to tip everywhere you turn these days, and those percentages just keep climbing higher and higher. But hey, it's okay to hit that "no tip" button guilt-free!

Now, when it comes to tipping your wedding vendors, it's really up to you. Sure, it's a nice gesture, but there are some things to think about. For instance, did your photographer or videographer personally shoot your wedding, or did they send someone else from their team? Did they show up on time and give it their all throughout the day? These are just a few factors to consider, but there are plenty more.

In my experience, I've been tipped at about 30% of the weddings I've worked – whether I was the lead shooter, second shooter, or part of the team. But here's the kicker: when you book with a big company that handles tons of weddings, there's a good chance the actual photographer or videographer won't be the one capturing your big day. It's a bit of a letdown, I know, but hopefully, the folks they send are top-notch and can deliver the goods.

Those big companies often charge less because they have a team of shooters on payroll, usually with their own gear. These folks work hard to make sure everything runs smoothly and your final product is top-notch. They're there to cheer you on, fix your hair for the perfect shot, lend a helping hand – you name it.

But here's the bottom line: tipping is optional. It's a service, and if you feel it's worth it, go for it! One little tip (pun intended): if you're considering it, have an envelope with a set amount ready to go. Give it to your coordinator and let them discreetly ask you if you want to tip at the end of the night. If you feel they knocked it out of the park, great! If not, no sweat – only you and your planner will ever know.